Just casting a line...
out of the water.
I didn't want to go fishing (I don't even have the patience to fish), but here I am, throwing in my line, wondering what will come up...
So, all mindless babbling aside, I would like to meet someone who's (not a fish) decent. I mean, really, I looked through some of the M4W posts and felt afraid. My only hope wife looking sex tonight Osage is that those that respond to my post will feel the same way when reading other posts (save for mine, of course; though, I wouldn't blame you if it invokes fear in you).
I want to meet someone who's kind (has a love for animals, does not shout at homeless people, if he's standing in the express line and he sees that the person behind him has only two items, then he will let them go first), who does not feel the need to assume a contrived identity (no hipsters, no yuppies, no 40yr old trying to remain 20 - plus, I still have this thing ed 'stamina' and no blue pill is a good replacement), who's an intellectual without being an ass about it, who's focused on his career goals, who doesn't need to relive his college days by drinking every weekend or attending the bar/club, who's warm and caring and generous without being a complete doormat, and most importantly, someone who simply has no problem being a bit silly at times. I am all of these things without being any one thing.
I suppose I should be clear about some things - I don't want to connect with anyone much younger (<35) or older (>45). I'm just not in that place in my life where I'm comfortable with either ends of the spectrum. Physical age may not reconcile well with emotional. Looks - yes, looks are important, but not of supreme importance. This is precisely why I didn't want to meet someone online - because the physical attraction is such a powerful force that it brings two people together...though it's not always sustainable...and exchanging photos just takes away the magic of seeing someone you're attracted to in person (plus, most pics suck).
I wish I could list all of the physical traits I desire in a man, but I know it's not reasonable. Though, if I may provide some guidelines - I am usually attracted to men taller than me (I'm 5'5). As for my looks, I'm average in all departments (no modesty intended). I'm the kind of person who people would 'normal' looking, but there is not much else. I have two kids and my body shows it, though I try to keep it tamed with frequent exercising.
I'm not looking for a long-term commitment or someone to have over to satisfy some carnal needs (I got a dildo for that). I'm fairly autonomous and don't want someone clinging to me for dear life, nor do I want to be that girl someone met online for kicks.
I don't really know where to go from here...just sit and wait for someone to find meaning in what I've written and respond, I suppose...
Just casting a line and waiting to see what (or, rather, who) bites.
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