Single Gilberto, 41

Divorced Lorie, 33

Married Adrien, 35

Single Myung, 22

for years for mommy issues, I'd be so over that. If he's been going to therapy for years and just now announced his lack of libido is caused by mommy issues, I'd be so gone. It sounds like his xxx wants fucking childhood wasn't ideal, whoop-de-doo, BFD, welcome to the club it doesn't sound abusive, just crappy. LOTS of had to help with chores at age 10 and they have sex with their wives. So, your update consists of a winded description of his mother .and not much more. He still watches porn, does he not? And can't have sex with you because he didn't get basketball shoes. Riiiiight The only thing I would suggest other than throwing in the towel (he makes up bullshit to pacify you, he has NO to get better) is to change therapists. It sounds like the one he has provided him with nothing but excuses. Lots of people have all sorts of crap in their lives growing up. the difference is that some use it as an excuse for the rest of their lives, others just soldier on, and some actually use previous adversity to make themselves better. Briefly, they GET OVER IT. My take he does not want a sex life with you. His has devolved into total bullshit, years of therapy and now mommy issues. You deserve better, at least someone who tries. Your husband's whole goal is to get you to settle for status quo, that make it real easy for him. What about you? Married Jettie, 28