Married women seeking sex tonight Windsor Locks RE: I WISH I HAD LISTENED: response to comments and OP I can understand what the person who made the third comment is saying. There are lots of ways to see things, and every person and situation are different in ways. I would like to say some of what I think. The second comment is like telling someone, "It's okay. You're alright, just the way you are." It's to console, and to relieve pressure. I think a lot of people want to do their best, and we all have learning in how to do that. To know who we are is alright with someone, and to have them show us that, especially when we are really trying, there is nothing that compares to that. To settle for okay, is really to have confidence in who we are, like knowing, like having composure. It is like having confidence in life. It is like a cut on the finger, we don't have to do our best or anything supergreat to make it , it heals on its own, and we can have confidence in that. We can help or hinder that in ways, but it will . That is okay. I feel like I might have been putting a lot pressure on someone, and it wasn't until I thought to write this how much I realized that. I'm sorry for that. Maybe I don't need to apologize. I can't know really. But I can feel, and I wouldn't want to do that if it hurts her in any way. I would want her to know the same thing like that second comment, to feel the same thing like that, how that feeling is always here with me, somewhere, even when it's not in the fore. She made me feel that. She would give me that feeling. For some people just feeling okay with themelves is not easy to do. The other thing that is good about okay is that it can help us to better see what is not okay, and we can do something about it. We can't do it all at once, and we might not be able to much at all if we don't feel okay. I would like to tell the original poster that I can understand somewhat how you might feel. I was able to make decisions in my life on my own for some time, and then I met someone with whom I felt strongly. It was as if my decisions and the direction of my life should no longer be my own, but shared with that person, so she and I could continue to share what we had and grow with it together. But I'm not sure she felt the same way, or if she was able to help if she did. I was also under pressures at times. And I'm not sure if she was aware of them, or if she was able to help with them either. I felt at times like there was nothing I could do to save what I had with this person. That was not a nice feeling at all. I once heard something a comedian said, "maybe something nice will happen." That thought was enough for me to believe in myself, to believe in lifeand love, and that she and I could save what we shared, and find a way to care for it together again. At a moment when I did not feel so well, I remembered that and it really helped turn that feeling around. I think the person who made the third comment has a good point in that you can do something to help yourself and maybe something nice will happen. The moment you make the decision to do that is like the first step. Keep stepping. You may not be able to do it all at once, but you will find what is okay for you. I know every situation is different, and I am just like anyone else riding on the shirt-tails of your post, telling you this or that, and using it to tell something to others. So I hope that is alright with you. I will step off of your shirt-tail now and hope it is alright. Perhaps you will feel some relief, as if some weight has been lifted. Or maybe you felt like you those of us who responded here are kind of showing support. Maybe it helps. To me love is something miraculous. Life in general is really quite miraculous if we think about it. Whether we believe that God made it that way or that's just how it is. Like how we . That is kind of miraculous. So in everything we experience, there is always something miraculous about it. And that is always there. I'm saying this if it helps. Sometimes we recognize love by its absence. And we can't really know how things would be if it were never there, whether its from family or friends, acquaintances or even strangers. It can leave us vulnerable, to keep only that in mind, when we ask for something from someone and begin to see the limits of that love, or when those who shown some love somehow hurt us, or when anyone hurts us. I can't say much to that. But I know that sometimes we meet someone with whom we have something more than anything else. I like to hold onto that and care about it. So have faith in yourself. If you believe in God, that faith is there for that reason. It's there to help prevent suffering in the world, or to help with the suffering that is already here. We'd suffer in life even in a perfect world, just by living and growing old. That's part of what 's message means to me. So a lot of the suffering is unnecessary. We have our hearts or souls to find them, to know them, to share them with others. Not to have them hurt, or unfound, or so on. I know people might try to exploit this for reasons. That would be on them, lame as it would be, to exploit the suffering or pain of other people, or take advantage of them here. I hope you can consider this post better than something on any level like that. Ladies looking sex tonight Fox Farm-College I don't victims as you do. I don't where she burns out and drops her ideal, rather that the ideal vanishes on her leaving her in anguish. So, the guys she falls for are either married and transit they aren't victims, they were enjoying a fling. She always expects more, so when they vanish she falls into deep disappointment but she does it again, and again, etc So, I don't her objects as losing anything, but she took it too seriously and fell into depression of sorts. 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